1 month. It’s been 1 month. And the bar has been set so low that I’m at a point where any day we don’t enter into nuclear war is a good day. When President Trump was still President-elect Trump, I went through an accelerated grieving process as he was not the candidate I had in … Continue reading What I’ve Learned from Talking With White People Since the Election
A List of Rose-Colored Microaggressions, Said With Love I was seventeen, and a stack of college brochures collected dust atop my bedroom vanity. I sat up against my headboard, eyeing them in the mirror—UCLA, UC Davis, Boston University, NYU. “What if I just applied to an HBCU instead?” I said into the phone. Historically Black … Continue reading Love Letters from My White Boyfriends
If you have made a promise to yourself that you are going to reach out to your Trump voting loved one – here are a few lessons we have learned that might help you navigate the upcoming conversations.
In the wake of Tuesday’s news, here are a few things to say — and not to say — to those who are mourning.
Maybe, like me, you were watching the election returns last night. I hit “refresh” on the New York Times election results page about every five minutes. We decided to distract ourselves with Luke Cage on Netflix because murderous super villains like Stryker are less stressful than watching continuous coverage. After two episodes I hit refresh one more … Continue reading Post Election Playlist
Continuing to use the term “minorities” does nothing to challenge the systemic and institutional hierarchies borne of racism, unconscious bias, and White privilege. Instead, it allows existing power imbalances to persist.